One thing that has truly amazed me here is how easy it is to
get people to smile. In the states I have a little game I like to play. I smile
at people in stores or walking down the street, or even people I know, and try
to see how many people will smile back. This game is really hard to play in
America. Hardly anyone ever smiles back, and it can be discouraging.
When I came here, I didn’t play the game intentionally, at
first. I play it so much at home that it has become a habit. What made me
remember the game was when people would smile at me as we drove down the
street. I realized that whenever I smiled while looking out the car window,
everyone who caught my eye would smile back. If I wasn’t smiling, people would
just stare blankly (and blank stares can be scary, haunting, annoying…it depends
on who is staring). When I did smile though, it was so lovely. Little children
would smile and wave and the tired faces of old women would light up.
And everyone would
smile. I found it so incredible. Here, where little babies run around naked and
teenagers look like they are seven because of malnutrition; here, where the
birth rate is high, the literacy rate is low, and half the population lives
under the poverty line ; here, in all the filth because of a great lack of
clean water; here, people smile. Yet in America, where people have running
water, electricity, food, BMW’s, blackberries, Wii’s, iPods, iphones, ipads,
and a host of other material things, I rarely see a smile.
I have so much to be thankful for, yet I complain or think
that I don’t have enough while these people smile through their trials. It is
my prayer today that Jesus will help me not take for granted the blessings He
has given me, and that He will show me how I can share Him and His blessings
with others, even through a smile. J
I have been missing your smile :-) Hope the internet improves so we can skype!
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